J.Team Blog Archive 2009-2010

Rachel Looks Forward to Allocations

Now that we are six months into J Team, I've learned a lot about the philanthropy process. J Team allows me to discover my own morals and learn how to advocate for what I believe in. The J Team group chose the word responsibility as our core value. To me this means that we must be responsible in our decision making, towards each other, our own beliefs, and the organizations we are considering. Last meeting we all shared our homework assignments, in which we discussed with out parents about their philanthropy experiences. I've found that the best way to convince others to give is to set an example. I'm looking forward to start allocating the money in a few weeks, and think that J Team is ready to follow through on our responsibilities.

Author: 
Rachel W.

Woody Prepares to Allocate

J.Team has now been going for about six months. In my opinion, we have accomplished quite a lot in these six months and we have come a really long way since we first met at the JCC in October. Our entire group has visited four charities in our area that we are considered donating to. Also, smaller groups have split up and visited six other charities. So at this point, we have seen all of our ten charities and the next step, in May, is to decide where to give our money.

The March 21st Session at the Stroum JCC was very important and we accomplished a lot of different things. In fact, it was such an important session that we had video cameras filming us to document what we are doing. I thought the cameras were kind of strange at first, but it will probably be good to make a video about J.Team later. The meeting started off with Amy HP giving us an inspiring speech about the importance of giving. This was her last chance to talk to us before we will decide where to give our money so she tied all the Jewish learning together for us. Next, we talked about the “homework” we had been given, which was to ask our parents about their experiences with charity and giving. A lot of people got a similar response from their parents, which was that their parents did a lot of volunteer work in their community but did not talk much about donating money. Although most people’s parents did give money to charity, they did not talk about it very much with their kids. The next part of the session was, in my opinion, the most important. All six of the small groups that had met with the charities we had voted on gave presentations on their organization. Some groups used videos to supplement their presentations and some just talked about their charity. The presentations all went great and I learned a lot about all of these new charities.

After we had heard from every group, Marla talked to us about the next step, deciding where to allocate all of the money. We prepared for our next meeting on May 23, where we will make our final decisions on donating money. With time running out, we talked about fundraising ideas. We came up with a few ideas but did not get very far with it. We set up a group of people to work on it in between this session and next, so we will see what they come up with.

I feel like I am ready to decide where to give our money. I will have to spend some time looking over all the charities and their grant requests, but I think I already have some good ideas on where I want to donate.

Author: 
Woody

Josh and Alec Team Up

J.Team has been a very rewarding experience for us both, allowing us to get in better contact with our Jewish community and the opportunity to make a real difference.

The key word responsibility shows how as a group we feel, because of our fortunate situations in society, that it is our duty to give back to the community, a principle stressed in the Jewish community.

We personally have seen a great deal of philanthropy come from our family members, especially our grandpa Ron. Ron gives back to the Jewish community, through his services and charitable donations. As a leader in the Jewish Community, he inspires those around him to give back, as well as directly giving back himself.

During the week we greatly look forward to J.Team, we are excited to see the friends we’ve made. We think about discussion points and interesting topics for the next meeting. The food is sweet.

We’ve learned a great deal from the site visits and insight from our peers. We feel like we can make a competent decision based on our experiences and what we’ve learned. We’re excited to give back!

Author: 
Josh and Alec L.

Bridget Starts to Choose

I have now been participating in J.Team for 6 months and I think it has been an amazing experience to learn about how we can help the Jewish community. Recently, we have been analyzing the meaning of responsibility. Personally, I feel it is my responsibility to do as much as I can to help people or groups that are in need. J.Team has taught me how important this really is. As a group, we have visited organizations in need of financial help and learned about what their organization does for the community. Together we decide what we like and dislike about the charity and whether or not it is our responsibility to help them and if so how much we will give them. Lately, I have been discussing my responsibility to help others with my parents to get their opinion on my decisions. I learned that they feel it is their responsibility to donate to Jewish organizations because they feel a connection to the Jewish community. I completely support my parents' beliefs but I think that my responsibility is not only to donate to Jewish nonprofits but to donate to all charities that I think could make a huge difference in the world.

Trying to decide which nonprofits to donate to is an extremely hard and long process because we want to make sure we choose the charities where our donations will directly help their cause. Our whole group has put a ton of effort into selecting our nonprofits but I think I've made the right decisions and I can't wait to see how my choices will impact the community!

Author: 
Bridget

Ashley Thinks About Why We Should Give

I really enjoy all the site visits because when you go to different agencies you see the different needs in the world. I feel J.Team has helped me realize what I value most and has also helped me see the values others posses too. Through J.Team connections are built with the people in the group as well as with the community. I think that I have become more sensitive to the needs of different people through the sites we have visited.

We came up with the word responsibility because it applies in multiple ways to the job of J.Team. In regards to charity in general, I believe it is our responsibility to give to those who have less or our suffering. Through J.Team we help contribute to the responsibility we have to help others. In addition, when making the decision of which organization to give our money to, we have to take the time to really think about it so we can act responsibly with this money in a way that we believe fits the needs and wants of our group.

Maimonides Ladder made me think about why my family gives charity and why others give charity. When looking at two people giving charity, often the amount is what people focus on. However, Maimonides Ladder made me wonder what is going through someone’s mind when they give charity. If you are not happy you are giving or you feel you are being forced to give money that it isn’t real charity. Charity should be given out of kindness. I believe that the amount donated is not always as important as the intentions of the giver.

Author: 
Ashley

Daniel, Maimonides, and Northwest Harvest

Now that I am 5 months into J.Team, I am really starting to get comfortable with how the system works. This allows me to bond with the other members in the group and become relaxed with sharing my thoughts with others. I think that the longer that J.Team goes on, the more the members will be able to share their thoughts and emotions.

I believe that J.Team as a group came up with the word responsibility because it best defines what not just J.Team should follow, but the world. If everyone saw their community and planet as a group and their responsibility, there would be significantly less problems.

Maimonides Ladder was interesting because it made me think of how and why people give charity. Also, it helped compare two different types of charity-givers. However I think that someone who donates a dollar is in the same boat as someone who donates a million dollars, for it’s the thought and action of the giver that counts.

The J.Team session allowed me to think of the different deeds I did, and why or why not they were considered to be on Maimonides Ladder.

I visited Northwest Harvest and I thought it was a great organization. I believe this because they produce a lot of food for many homeless people. Also, their ethics and way of going about handing out the food is important. For example, they do not ask for the clients to fill out their names or any other information.

Author: 
Daniel D.

Lexi Learns About Responsibility

From the five months I have been in J. Team, I have learned a great amount about the agencies we have visited as well as immersed myself in philanthropy. My parents are big philanthropists in the Jewish community and my mom suggested the program to me. I am so glad she did!

Together, as a group, we decided the best word to describe the work we are doing is responsibility. In regards to J. Team it means that we are responsible and in charge of the money being distributed to the agencies we choose. Our group is the decision makers of the amount of money we give and to what certain agencies. Two other words we discussed were charity and teamwork. It’s true that we are doing charity by giving this money and we are working as a team to distribute the money, but it all comes down to how we give the money. The answer is responsibly.

I am motivated to give because I think about how fortunate I am. I live in a comfortable home on Mercer Island and am able to spend money freely. Some people don’t even have a home let alone anything. When I think of myself compared to those out there, I know it is partly my responsibility to share what I have, with them. Our visit to Shalom Bayit made me feel even more fortuitous that I have such a loving family. Those women who go to Shalom Bayit in hopes of starting a new life have nothing to begin with and that is why the agency is so great for giving them necessary items in their new homes. Before going there, I was unaware of the work the agency did but after exploring the warehouse and listening to a speaker, I learned a lot!
 

Author: 
Lexi C.

Emilie and Maimonidies' Ladder

I really enjoy J.Team. I enjoy going around and hearing all about these agencies that I have not heard of prior to doing a sight visit. As well I like knowing that in the spring we as a group will be able to make an impact on an agency of our choice. I joined J.Team because it sounded interesting to me and a good experience to have. I am very glad I joined, I have met new people who I really enjoy talking to and I feel it is a great way to give back on a larger scale rather than on my own.

Responsibility to me means making the right decision for a right reason that will benefit others as well as making you feel good in the end. As well I believe that responsibility means taking accountability for your actions. For me working with J.Team gives me and the group a large amount of responsibility for making the decision on whom we will give the money too. It is fun to have this responsibility but also we must remember that we have an important decision to make and that with that decision we gain responsibility.

When we discussed Maimonides’ Ladder, I felt that the order of giving was a little confusing. While it is all giving in some way or another I felt that some of the ways listed should not fully be classified as giving. Giving begrudgingly should not be classified as giving since you are not happy that you are doing it, in the end you are have envy of the person you gave to. People are giving to help others; they should do it cheerfully and with a smile since they know that they are doing a good thing!

Maimonides’ ladder comes up a lot when I think of going through what I have and what I don’t want anymore. It has made me think of Maimonides’ ladder and the different types of giving. It is very interesting and a way to view the way of giving.

I feel that I learned a lot from our visit to Shalom Bayit. I learned what they are there for and what they do. They are a very helpful group to the people they serve and I feel that what I learned about was mostly about domestic violence; which was really sad to learn about but important to know.

I met with Peace for the Streets by Kids From The Streets a few weeks ago. It was really interesting to hear and learn about especially from the teens that go there. I enjoyed going there as well because the organization is well managed and even thought they are in a small location they are well managed and the program seemed to be fully running with little to no kinks.

Emilie S.
 

Author: 
Emilie S.

Molly's Thoughts on Responsibility

As the months on J.Team go by, I become more and more satisfied with not only my experience in this program, but also the life lessons I am taking away from it. The word we came up with as a group, to describe J.Team is responsibility and I couldn't agree more with that choice of a word. J.Team is all about responsibility. Responsibility not only to your fellow teammates, but to the all of the people you are helping through this program. That ties in with the lesson on Jewish values we learned this month, which was Rambam's ladder of mitzvot. We learned the different levels of mitzvot, meaning the levels of helping not only others, but yourself as well.

People are motivated to give for many reasons, and some of those reasons include making themselves feel good about helping people. We learned however, that in the end it doesn't really matter what you feel when you give to someone, because you are still holding yourself up to the responsibility of helping others. In other words, the people who benefit from your help will always be grateful.

I really enjoyed our trip to Shalom Bayit this month, it made me think about how badly some people need that extra push to get their lives back together.

I have been thinking about the ladder this week, because it is Purim, which is a Jewish holiday where you are obligated even more than usual. I don't necessarily think that just because it is commanded of us to give on Purim, that it makes it less meaningful for the people receiving the gift.

In a few weeks, I am going to meet with the Friendship Circle, a group supporting families with kids who have a mental disability. I am very excited to learn more about this organization and the program because I have heard wonderful things about the life lessons it is teaching its volunteers and how much it helps out the families in need.
 

Author: 
Molly

J.Team impacts Byron

Instead of just hoping the world gets better, and all the problems just vanish, instead of being passive and hoping everything will magically fix, I decided to take initiative. That’s why I joined J.Team.

Personally, I felt that an instantaneous change needed to occur in my life. I saw that I was headed on a path that was not as righteous as I would have hoped. What better way to make something of myself than turning to my own faith to help make the world a better place?

With J.Team I feel like I personally have the power to help people. I'm not just giving my money to some random charity and hoping they use the money wisely. With this program I get to hand-select the most deserving philanthropic organization to receive the money, and I have the privilege of knowing how it’s being used and who is actually using it.

J.Team provides an opportunity for kids all over the area to take a step up and have more of a voice in making this area, state, country, and world so great.

 

Author: 
Byron R.